Author Archives: Sarah McNeill

The hidden power of smiling

I believe that so much of one’s success in life comes from one’s ability to use the power of smiling. It’s a shame that life’s demands chip away at something we apparently did so naturally before we were born.  Throughout my life, through all my successes and challenges,  I have experienced first hand the extraordinary power and strength of what smiling can do. I think I may actually smile more than the average person! Charles Darwin said that the ‘act of smiling itself actually makes us feel better.’  He’s right.

Ron Gutman’s presentation on this Ted video has some fascinating takeaways and interesting insights.  You may find yourself pulling out your old highschool yearbook after watching this video. This time, not looking at the hairstyles of your era! As someone who has made a career in the placement of people into companies I was quite taken by some of the concepts Gutman shared.

I would agree readily with Mother Teresa’s statement ‘I will never understand all the good that a simple smile can accomplish’.  I’m willing to bet that one of the m0st significant traits of the most successful companies today share is the power of the smile. I’d guess that they beat out their competitors in this area by a country mile.

To close, another great example of the power of the smile in action, a favourite of mine, is found in Validation – the art of smile

~ Sarah McNeill

Game Day

Stanley Cup Playoffs round 1. Game 7. Sudden death overtime.  An unbelievable amount of pressure upon both hockey teams.  It was not about individual superstars. It was about the team coming together for one common goal. For the Canucks, after losing games 4, 5, and 6…they just had to come out of that adversity as a stronger, more focused team. And they did.

I feel twitchy as I write this, the anticipation of what is to come is heavy. Game day approaches. Again.

Ryan Kesler said it best in his post game 7 interview :

“I never wanted something as bad as wanting this game.
Everybody in that room wanted it just as bad as I did.
We play for each other in that room.
We really care about each other, and that’s what it’s all about.”

When I think of great teams playing at the top of their game, it’s not only the Canucks that come to mind. Skeleton racing may be an individual sport, but it is ‘the team effort’, said Canada’s 2010 Gold medalist for Skeleton, Jon Montgomery, ‘that makes the difference’.  I had the privilege of hearing Jon speak at a business engagement. What a character! I was taken by his astuteness and insight into the psychology of a leader.

Below are some notes of wisdom from Jon Montgomery:

-Self efficacy wins the day

-Have control over your attitude

-Be able to see that it’s not just about yourself

-Embody team spirit. Always.

-Things are only out of reach if you put them there

-Compare notes with your peers (sharing from peers expedited their rate of learning and paid off in dividends)

-Your only choice in life is how you choose to handle situations

Through adversity, real teams survive. They have gaman. (the Japanese term of zen buddhist origin, meaning to do one’s best in distressed times, maintaining self control and discipline.)  United teams have the hallmarks of champions.  Maybe, just maybe, The Cup will be ours this year. To our dear Canucks, in the words of Jon Montgomery, ‘…center the scope of your vision and execute plan.’

May we all have our game day too. (more than once)

~ Sarah McNeill

The sun can shine everywhere anytime.

Yes Mr. Rogers you were correct when you said “it’s a beautiful day in the neighbourhood” on your TV show back in the 70′s. This show impacted my life and so many others. I think this show is a positive memory point I’ve carried with me all my life. When I stop to think about the effect one’s attitude has on others it can  really be a deal breaker in many situations. Leaving Hawaii the other week I looked out the window to see  12 airport staff all standing in a line waving at our plane  and with a smile on my face I thought what a wonderful thing to remember when leaving that beautiful place. The lovely smile and welcome I always get from my barista anytime I go to her coffee shop makes my day and makes me want to return. The way we carry our emotions can greatly affect our relationships with our ‘neighbours’, in the office and anywhere else we go.

When’s the last time you thought about the way you approach your morning and end your day with your team mates and loved ones. How about any given moment in the day? Does the sun shine around you?

This video warms my soul. Have a great day!

~ Sarah McNeill

Corporate Culture Minute

~ Sarah McNeill

Corporate Culture Minute

~ Sarah McNeill

Reflections

It’s that time of the year when my mind starts to wander through the past activities and events in my life over the past 365 days. This ‘free-form’ thinking is a welcome break from routine. And while routines are often extremely important to setting pace in one’s personal and business life, these ‘wandering’ moments can be soulful and provide the catalyst for the next wave of energy and focus.

Guy Borgford’s blog post, Is Your Company Fearless, got me thinking about new year’s resolutions for 2011. Fear it seems, is what sets great companies apart. It is in being fearless then, where things seem to take flight.

Two iconic companies come to mind, Facebook and Google. While both have certainly changed my life, it is the mark of their tremendous corporate cultures that struck me.

Mark Zuckerberg, CEO of Facebook once said, ‘it’s about being unafraid to break things in order to make them better.’

David Glazer, Engineering Director of Google calls it keeping the ‘cheese in motion’. Having recently reread Spencer Johnson’s book ‘Who moved my Cheese’, this statement made sense. Change happens. The more you are in your groove prepared for change the more you will adapt. And what two better companies to prove this point than Facebook and Google.

Time for resolutions on becoming more fearless in our lives and in our businesses.

~ Sarah McNeill

It’s not in my box

One of my favourite video clips. Many of you will have seen this before, but for me, I enjoy it every time.

A recent experience at a highly rated hotel in Arizona reminded me of a phenomena that seems to have limitless boundaries. It’s that little, nagging unaware habit that many people have always had or have developed over their lives. It’s something that can occur culturally in an organization or institution or, most disappointingly, in a customer service focused environment. That little habit is a blind spot. Its other nick name could also be called ‘it’s not in my box’. While the two phrases can found independent or inter-related to the other, it is its commonness that I find unsettling.

“An S.E.P.,” he said, “is something that we can’t see, or don’t see, or our brain doesn’t let us see, because we think it’s somebody else’s problem. That’s what S.E.P. means. Somebody else’s problem. The brain just edits it out. It’s like a blind spot. If you look at it directly you won’t see it unless you know precisely what it is. Your only hope is to catch it by surprise out of the corner of your eye.” – Life, the Universe and Everything – Douglas Adams.

What gave me hope to my ‘not in my box’ poolside ‘towel guy’ (it appeared that his only role was to put towels on a table and not to be aware that he could go and remove used towels from the chaises) was that while a number of others operated similarly to him in their own roles, at least a few gems had the ability to see beyond the basic framework of their job description and have awareness of service. And when those few people that had the ability to not let a small thing be ‘someone else’s problem’, the effect it had was tremendously positive.

Too often do people shut their mind or sight lines to edit out things that they may not wish to see. Most especially critical is when this habit or trait finds itself residing in those in leadership roles. As I reflect on my life, I think that I became more adept at seeing outside my box when I became a parent. As a mother, and to the chagrin of most children and young adults, “I’m always watching”. With some practice, I believe, that for the most part, you can take off the blinders that limit us and actually see things through a wider lense. It’s amazing the possibilities that abound and the effect it has on others. Employers, be aware of fostering a culture where people are encouraged to have a wide angle view of their workplace and of their surroundings. And for employees and for everybody, it takes practice. We are human, after all.

~ Sarah McNeill

Think Outside the Atmosphere

This is so cool.

To quote Roger from Spring Advertising in his poetic blog post , “This video is a perfect example of what you can accomplish when you think outside the box atmosphere.”

Imagine what companies can achieve when they think outside the atmosphere.

~ Sarah McNeill

video credit:  Luke Geissbuhler

The Economy is Recovering. How are you doing?

Appearances may be deceiving. Employees and companies have been through so much in the past 12 months.

~ Sarah McNeill

Keeping Momentum

With summer behind us, and while that time was totally enjoyable, I can honestly say that I love Fall. To me Fall is about planning (perhaps the highly intensive juggle of school schedules ignites this!). I also like to use Fall for imagining, dreaming and looking to the future.

With the team back in full strength it is easy to bring our momentum back into its optimal groove to capitalize on the inspirations Fall brings us. Done correctly company meetings and recognition programs can do a lot for team spirit and engagement. The trick is knowing what components make up the right recipe for each team.

One of my favourite ways to keep momentum is through spontaneous meetings. Some of our best breakthroughs have come from them. The free form nature of these catch ups can weigh strongly in favour of keeping momentum ticking along and the wheel turning. As everyone knows, people tend to spark off of each other. And most of the time innovation emerges from groups. The art of spontaneity can co-exist quite nicely with structured meetings as the ‘x’ factor found in spontaneity breaks the doldrums of routine.

I can already hear the wheels in motion! Gotta run! Momentum calls!

~ Sarah McNeill

photo credit: stefanweihs